14 Like the release of water is the beginning of strife; before it breaks out, stop the quarrel.
Proverbs 17:14 Cross References - LEB
Genesis 13:8-9
8 Then Abram said to Lot, "Please, let there not be quarreling between me and you, and between my shepherds and your shepherds, for we men are brothers.
9 Is not the whole land before you? Separate yourself from me. If you want what is on the left, then I will go right; if you want what is on the right, I will go left."
Judges 8:1-3
1 The men of Ephraim said to him, "What is this thing you have done to us, not calling us when you went to fight against the Midianites?"* And they quarreled with him severely.
2 And he said to them, "What I have done now in comparison with you? Are not the gleanings of Ephraim better than the grape harvest of Abiezer?
3 God has given into your hand the commanders of Midian, Oreb, and Zeeb. What have I been able to do in comparison with you?" And their ⌊anger⌋* against him subsided when ⌊he said that⌋.*
Judges 12:1-6
1 The men of Ephraim were called to arms, and they crossed over to Zaphon and said to Jephthah, "Why did you cross over and make war against the ⌊Ammonites⌋,* and why did you not call us to go with you? We will burn down your house over you with fire."
2 And Jephthah said to them, "I and my people were engaged in great conflict with the ⌊Ammonites⌋;* I called you, but you did not deliver me from their hand.
3 I saw that you would not deliver us; ⌊I risked my own life⌋,* and I crossed over to the ⌊Ammonites⌋,* and Yahweh gave them into my hand. Why have you come up to me this day to fight against me?"
4 Jephthah gathered all the men of Gilead, and he made war with Ephraim; and the men of Gilead defeated Ephraim because they said, "You are fugitives of Ephraim, you Gileadites, in the midst of Ephraim and Manasseh."
5 Then Gilead captured the fords of the Jordan from Ephraim, and whenever a fugitive of Ephraim said, "Let me cross over," the men of Gilead said to him, "Are you an Ephraimite?" When he said, "No,"
6 they said to him, "Please say Shibboleth," and if he said, "Sibboleth"—because he could not ⌊pronounce it⌋* correctly—they grabbed him and executed him at the fords of Jordan. At that time forty-two thousand from Ephraim fell.
2 Samuel 2:14-17
14 Abner said to Joab, "Let the young men come up and fight in our presence." And Joab said, "Let them come up."
15 So they came forward and passed by in number: twelve for Benjamin and for Ish-Bosheth the son of Saul, and twelve from the servants of David.
16 Then each seized his ⌊opponent⌋* by the head and each thrust his sword in the side of his opponent, so they fell together. So they* called the name of that place Helkath Hazzurim,* which is in Gibeon.
17 Then the battle ⌊became increasingly fierce⌋* on that day, and Abner and the men of Israel were defeated before the servants of David.
2 Samuel 19:41-20:22
41 Suddenly, all the men of Israel were coming to the king. They said to the king, "Why have our brothers the men of Judah stolen away and brought the king and his household over the Jordan, with all the men of David?"
2 Chronicles 10:14-16
14 And he spoke to them according to the advice of the young men, saying, "I will make your yoke heavy, and I myself will add to it. My father disciplined you with whips, but I will do so with scorpions."
15 So the king did not listen to the people, for it was a turning of events from God, so that Yahweh might fulfill his word that he had spoken by the hand of Ahijah the Shilonite to Jeroboam son of Nebat.
16 So all Israel saw that the king would not listen to them, and the people answered the king, saying, "What portion is there for us in David? We have no inheritance in the son of Jesse. Each to your tents, O Israel! Now look to your own house, David!" And all Israel went to their own tents.
2 Chronicles 13:17
17 And Abijah and his people struck a great blow against them, and the dead from Israel that fell were five hundred thousand chosen men.
2 Chronicles 25:17-24
17 Then Amaziah king of Judah took counsel, and he sent to Joash the son of Jehoahaz the son of Jehu, king of Israel, saying, "Come,* ⌊let us face one another⌋.*
18 And Joash the king of Israel sent to Amaziah king of Judah, saying, "The thorn bush that is in Lebanon has sent to the cedar which is in Lebanon, saying, 'Give your daughter to my son as wife.' But a wild animal of the field that was in Lebanon passed by and trampled the thorn bush.
19 Look, you say that you have struck Edom, and your heart has lifted you up to boast. Now remain at your home. Why stir up disaster that you fall, you and Judah with you?"
20 But Amaziah did not listen, for it was from God that he might give them into the hand of enemies, because they sought the gods of Edom.
21 So Joash the king of Israel went up, and he and Amaziah the king of Judah ⌊faced one another⌋* at Beth-Shemesh, which belongs to Judah.
22 And Judah was defeated before Israel, and each man fled to his tent.
23 And Joash the king of Israel captured Amaziah the king of Judah, the son of Joash, the son of Jehoahaz, at Beth-Shemesh. And they brought him to Jerusalem and broke down the wall of Jerusalem from the Gate of Ephraim to the Corner Gate, four hundred cubits.
24 Then with all the gold and silver, all the objects found in the house of God with Obed-Edom, the storehouses of the house of the king, and ⌊the hostages⌋,* he returned to Samaria.
2 Chronicles 28:6
6 And Pekah, the son of Remaliah, killed in one day one hundred and twenty thousand in Judah, all men of strength, because they forsook Yahweh the God of their ancestors.*
Proverbs 13:10
10 Only by insolence is strife set up, and wisdom is with those who take advice.
Proverbs 14:29
29 He who is slow to anger has great understanding, but the hasty of spirit* exalts folly.
Proverbs 15:1
1 A soft answer will turn away wrath, but a word of trouble will stir ⌊anger⌋.*
Proverbs 16:32
32 He who is slow to anger* is better than him who is mighty, and he who controls his spirit than him who captures a city.
Proverbs 17:19
19 He who loves transgression loves strife; he who builds his high thresholds seeks destruction.
Proverbs 19:11
11 The understanding of a person makes him slow to his ⌊anger⌋,* and his glory overlooks offense.
Proverbs 20:3
3 It is honorable for the man to refrain from strife, but every fool will be quick to quarrel.
Proverbs 25:8
8 do not hastily bring out to court, for* what will you do at its end, when your neighbor puts you to shame?
Proverbs 26:21
21 As charcoal is to hot embers and wood is to fire, so a man of quarrels is to kindling strife.
Proverbs 29:22
22 A man of anger will stir strife, and the owner of anger, much transgression.
Ecclesiastes 7:8-9
Matthew 5:39-41
Acts 6:1-5
1 Now in these days, as* the disciples were increasing in number,* a complaint arose by the ⌊Greek-speaking Jews⌋* against the ⌊Hebraic Jews⌋* because* their widows were being overlooked in the daily distribution of food.*
2 So the twelve summoned the community of disciples and* said, "It is not desirable that we neglect the word of God to serve tables.
3 So, brothers, select from among you seven men ⌊of good reputation⌋,* full of the Spirit and wisdom, whom we will put in charge of this need.
4 But we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the ministry of the word."
5 And the statement pleased the whole group, and they chose Stephen (a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit), and Philip, and Prochorus, and Nicanor, and Timon, and Parmenas, and Nicolaus (a convert from Antioch),
Acts 15:2-21
2 And after* there was no little strife and debate by Paul and Barnabas against them, they appointed Paul and Barnabas and some others from among them to go up to the apostles and elders in Jerusalem concerning this issue.
3 So they were sent on their way by the church, and* passed through both Phoenicia and Samaria, telling in detail the conversion of the Gentiles and bringing great joy to all the brothers.
4 And when they* arrived in Jerusalem, they were received by the church and the apostles and the elders, and reported all that God had done with them.
5 But some of those who had believed from the party of the Pharisees stood up, saying, "It is necessary to circumcise them and to command them* to observe the law of Moses!"
6 Both the apostles and the elders assembled to deliberate concerning this matter.
7 And after* there was much debate, Peter stood up and* said to them, "Men and brothers, you know that in the early days* God chose among you through my mouth that the Gentiles should hear the message of the gospel and believe.
8 And God, who knows the heart, testified to them by* giving them* the Holy Spirit, just as he also did to us.
9 And he made no distinction between us and them, cleansing their hearts by faith.
10 So now why are you putting God to the test by* placing on the neck of the disciples a yoke that neither our fathers nor we have been able to bear?
11 But we believe we will be saved through the grace of the Lord Jesus in ⌊the same⌋* way those also are."
12 And the whole group became silent and listened to Barnabas and Paul describing all the signs and wonders God had done among the Gentiles through them.
13 And after they had stopped speaking, James answered, saying, "Men and brothers, listen to me!
14 Simeon has described how God first concerned himself to take from among the Gentiles a people for his name.
15 And with this the words of the prophets agree, just as it is written:
16 'After these things I will return and build up again the tent of David that has fallen, and the parts of it that had been torn down I will build up again and will restore it,
17 so that the rest of humanity may seek the Lord, even all the Gentiles* ⌊who are called by my name⌋,* says the Lord,* who makes these things
18 known from of old.'*
19 Therefore I conclude we should not cause difficulty for those from among the Gentiles who turn to God,
20 but we should write a letter to them to abstain from the pollution of idols and from sexual immorality and from what has been strangled and from blood.
21 For Moses has those who proclaim him in every city from ancient generations, because he* is read aloud in the synagogues on every Sabbath."
Romans 12:18
18 If it is possible on your part, be at peace with all people.
1 Thessalonians 4:11
11 and to aspire to live a quiet life, and to attend to ⌊your own business⌋,* and to work with your hands,* just as we commanded you,
2 Timothy 2:23-24
James 3:14-18
14 But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and tell lies against the truth.
15 This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic.
16 For where there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there is disorder and every evil practice.
17 But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceful, gentle, obedient, full of mercy and good fruits, nonjudgmental, without hypocrisy,
18 And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace among* those who make peace.