CLV(i)
2 It is better to go to a house of mourning than to go to a house of feasting In that it is the terminus of every man, Thus let the living lay this on his heart."
3 Better is vexation than mirth, For with evil on the countenance the heart may be made better."
4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning, And the heart of the stupid in the house of rejoicing."