ECB(i)
2 better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of banqueting; for that is the end of all humanity; and the living gives to his heart:
3 better vexation than laughter; for by the evil of the face the heart becomes well-pleased.
4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; and the heart of fools in the house of cheerfulness.